Previously, it was actually easier! It swung his son in his arms as there were so overcome, lapsed into the recapitulation spontaneously joyous games cuckoo, traced the baby, because the desire to anwandelte and smooched beings simply because they are sometimes. And children! They brabbelten, crawled, learned to speak, walk and play - like, very alone. Quasi, as the beak and feet were cultivated. And there were even passable youth and adults from them.
The good times of innocence, when everything is still to an end in itself has happened and could happen and the big boys, fit and wise, without which, even without the efforts of universal promotion of their loved ones.
Today is apparently no more! There is simply wonderful shape sorter Stack, because every child fun, dear mother! There, the motto is to promote permanent. Nursery Brave New World: Pregnancy juchzend corresponds to a cube of wood, Mom thinks, oh yes, which promotes the feeling of spaciousness, motor coordination skills, but because I just play around with my mouse and show how you just stack beautiful. .. What, do not like it? Whether the more beneficial? Nee, Lale, is how, please, do not want more? There is resistance to this child, which could encourage more ... etc.
Or take the kindergarten. As one would expect to English. How else should our little Luke, Paul and Jonas fit for the challenges of a globalized world? Once called the window, but it is very brutal closes early, and then the poor child at the end of the language in camera (while) windows in the elementary or secondary school Pauk, which can not be good.
Ever one wonders at times if not before birth is not decisive. Because even if Mozart so good for the interconnection of synapses should be, that has been lost, the fetus with an initial fund of sonatas by Mozart known. How are children, because later face competition from overseas, where the Americans once again are much faster and long embryonic language teaching, and later even though the Chinese baby Nanni, as knows what is good?
Recently, dad with a young child in your home computer, because the manufacturer had promised that this very well unbeatable promotes logical thinking. And dad was, as Jonas competent equations times later after disbanding if x support in this crucial Crawling age denied? And we do not want all the best for our son?
It is also encouraging that the doctor, but this is the best, or not? Sometimes voices are heard criticism because. For example, the renowned child psychologist Wolfgang Bergmann. He says in his book "The Art of parental love," the child has not come to play in case of toys, before a baby is established, secretly an educational or motor or cognitive promotion . It is an understanding when it is in the same book says, babies game was "very serious". Is not it about the baby through the games to try to get everything?
Well, then my Promotion critic, which is probably true, but only works if it was not always an adult with strict targets in the head and sits beside the child to freedom of games and exploring the trouble. There is also an African proverb: The grass does not grow faster when it moves. Yes, and not always philosophers and educators reform emphasizes that children like the flower buds, which are in any case to develop a beautiful flower, not from the inside out and our own strength, if only to prepare The fertile soil and adequate, otherwise simply grow?
Perhaps we should simply relax and listen ha ido, if once again - especially the corner of providing children's educational software industry - gebetsmühlenartig the "eligibility" Zauberwörtchen sounds of our conscience to call their parents. , Cuddling, games, jumping, running - just because it's fun, and good for children as they like: that's enough!
