Why with my baby?


Babies have the character to shout to be felt. Hardly had the new homeland citizens, hence, their parents often large conjecture. What does that mean to mourn? What I mean my baby? How can I respond appropriately and quiet?

With its freshly baked uncertainty are the parents do we are not alone: Your baby has no idea of what is happening and what she really wants. In his view, only an unpleasant feeling, so to speak, and asks for help to get rid of this feeling again. Their screams could also result in the following words: "Human Mami, I feel so was modest, please help me to make the stop." If this bad feeling of hunger, fatigue, the desire for privacy or other imperatives, is aware of the little creatures in the first half as well as their parents.

Therefore,

the first few weeks a very important moment of knowledge. And while the mother and father has not learned to scream and seeing what your baby needs only now (that there must be, but is more likely rather than the rule), which left no other choice than anything Possible to try one after the other.
The most important rule: respond to the cries
The baby is crying of a mother and father warning instinctively feel a strong desire to console the baby, usually beginning by doing so - if found - pick up and physical contact with him. This instinct of their parents must necessarily trust. On this point there in the investigation now largely agree. On the crying baby to respond, not to ignore the main premise that a baby will prosper and build confidence.

Hungry, tired, sew-needily?
The following checklist of the most common reasons for the writers should help the appropriate response to signals of babies.

* Is it hungry?
If the baby cries, can help initially in the chest, because babies are often hungry! If the baby but only the breast or bottle, hunger may fall as the cause of Crying.

* Is it just close?
Babies are part of their time in her womb of the mother of his closest physical contact with the mother lived. Since it is not surprising that even after birth later. If the baby cries, it can mean that is very close to mom or dad wants to be - preferably in the arm - and swung want to be like in the womb.

* Is it tiring?
Many, perhaps most babies do not sleep easy if you are tired because she did not know that the solution would be to their discomfort to fall asleep. So mourn, who took the field. How you can help a baby to sleep? It really is not a panacea, but it once again: Every child is different! For example, it may also be that the majority is like a baby in the womb of the mother for sleep decreases, as in a cradle or swung their eyes the best ride in a pushchair autumn. If parents are lucky, you can ditties with a gentle caress or the accompanying sleep. Some babies seem to feel the noise of the dishwasher as a relaxing and above all it should be so restless ghost, whose currency is temporarily loud only a car around the block or at the high fan off the hair dryers.
Three months colic?
Babies in the first months of often suffer from the so-called three-month colic. However, does not clarify exactly what it is. One of them has long been suspected that babies especially after meals abdominal pain, because the digestive system is not yet ripe and that, for example, with flatulence trouble. Then came the theory, babies cried because they had not flatulence, flatulence but emerge only by the cries and because children are swallowed air. And finally, and lastly, there is also the view, the term "colic three months" would be purely and simply for all the states of unexplained nausea, a baby during the first months passing by and for adults simply no explanation .

What is in fact often noted that, after the baby is breastfeeding or bottle-feeding for a short time are met and soon begin to wind and screaming. Antidote appropriate: the baby moves, preferably in the so-called flying handle. It will be with the belly down on the forearm, that part of adults have the baby between the legs, shoulders and the head of a small worm is the Ellbeuge or in the arm from adults. Many babies love it if you are with your other hand gently in his Popo blows. Often, may be in this position "steam".

Other options: soft belly massage for babies, perhaps with a few drops of Kümmelöl, with your hand clockwise in his stomach removed. Or the baby's legs and, therefore, bend circular movements. Some parents swear in a warm cherry pit pillows, with their newborns in the abdomen.

Po miracle or another upset?
If a baby cries, is also, of course, verify that perhaps cold or too hot, for example, a sore Po could be the cause. Babies love not, for example, especially when their Mützchen foot slips by in the face that no longer can see. Some really scream, even if the diaper is full too long, others not being annoying. Still others are not comfortable with that if it is in the pushchair and in full Wintermontur in over-heated stores closed. No wonder if there are so many young scion patience wire tears. Sometimes roll tangles and blocks babies is so unfortunate in his sleeping bag or, for example, the ceiling on your baby lying coach who has no room for maneuver and more annoying to start shouting. Here is this: If a baby cries, and necessarily respond to see if everything is in order. Sometimes, outwardly visible reason to blame.

Teething pain?
If the baby cries frequently, may also be because the next denticle first - especially after the fourth month of life or later. You can, for example, a reference to teething pain, if the baby is really tired enough to sleep, sometimes even dozed off was violently and suddenly cries out. Parents often report that children around the quengelig tooth and very uneven. Often, also in connection teeth or immediately after a cold.

Dental Children have a strong need for something nuckeln and to bite. Often they are all stuck in his mouth, which can get their fingers, the whole Faust, Wood rattle your arm or Schmusetiers. Facilitating may be somewhat Cool one , to chew, as a carrot or a peeled Biting ring. Are inflamed dental strips and the child is prevented from sleeping well, we can try to massage him the tooth bar with a clean finger - perhaps soaked firm Camomile tea an analgesic or Teething-Gel - to help.

First cold?
If a baby cries a lot, can also be a first infection - a cold or diarrhea - the cause. This is often between the third and sixth month of life. At that time, the maternal protection of nests and baby consumed with upward mobility is always more things in their mouths and comes into contact with so many germs.

If a baby cries a lot and showing signs of cold, for example, a runny nose, is primarily to consider whether it also has a fever. When children have fever doctor. If there is no fever, as this helps to ensure sufficient moisture (wet towels in heating), the baby at all times that amount when it is required then with a blocked nose, possibly with a pipette one to two drops of boiled, slightly salty water into his nose träufeln.

In one of diarrhoeal diseases in babies, incidentally more slimily green chair. In this case children the best doctor.

About irritation?
Most of these parents can sing a song Chen. Jerky one many babies, especially in the early afternoon. Possibly is the number of impressions of the day, which causes a kind of irritation, which - apparently - sometimes just across a wide crying can be reduced. In fact, many babies at the moment nothing for calm and not infrequently is the first to partners working at night to the front door in his hand was depressed, a package crying, while the home or stayed in cord TRACK a back room, the door behind him, and then laboriously struggling to zuknallt version.

Cry against this same hour helpline, the baby in the body to endure, perhaps with the help of a Stretcher cloth or bags, and before it loses nerve to another person who brings back a bit to pick up. Is there not one, is better for the baby sometimes briefly in another room to a safe place (his birthplace) and next door to lay a few minutes deep. Sometimes, at the moment, the miracle of the baby suddenly completely exhausted by the deep sleep and is the mother or father finally relax.

Boredom?
Nobody seems exciting, as long as the roof or on the merits of the sky from a car stay rigid. Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that there are always babies in the same places at some boring and yearn for new ideas. How quickly and often, this is totally new temperament of fresh earth depends citizen. Some babies to start quengeln if they are already an hour to get the baby blanket, and others find it shocking at all be taken into account and not always to Mother news arm to explore the apartment. This can also be exhausted at some point and most babies curious calm perfection with a walk.

Development goals?
All parents with the time noted that the life of a baby quiet and unruhigere phases. If a baby cries often inexplicable reasons constantly unstable, less than usual smile and prefer to return permanently to their mom or dad would like, then the footprints are often only a development thrust. The first is not to recognize what is happening, the baby is restless and dependent than before. Suddenly, however, after a few exhausting days or perhaps weeks, remind parents that their baby evolved and acquired new skills. Then, once calmer, more relaxed phase - until the next development thrust is approaching. For the baby at this stage to calm down, is cheap, its need to close more to give and not alarmed that this may be seen as a step backwards. If new skills in the brains of babies develop, this seems to disconcerting small effect, which aims to enhance the protection of Mom and has at the moment is necessary.
One thing is certain: There are restless and calm babies, regardless of the respective capabilities of their parents. Mothers and fathers of babies who cry a lot, firstly, not worse than others, who are lucky enough to get a calmer baby to take. Even newborn brings a distinctive own temper in the world.

Jerky one babies is a major challenge, parents are often exhausted and tense nervlich. Such babies, it is very important that not one person - is usually the mother - around the clock alone with the baby. Parents of babies need especially arduous and often very little support. Because all love - constantly disturbed sleep and continuous loud the baby every human being simply go to the substance. Here are the families and friends of young parents called, not only with intelligent comments to want to teach, but actively help the parents with their main task is not entirely alone.