Maybe it was the infamous one-night stand, but perhaps also a gaff with a good friend. Sometimes it's the eve of an impending separation, so to speak, a farewell love, unplanned pregnancy. Or the ardent lover fell immediately above the quest for distance, as he pregnancy until then innigst Angebeteten their experiences.
There are many reasons why women in their pregnancy without an outside partner. Whatever the causes are, without the participation of love and strong support from a partner during pregnancy raises another question: How will my family and friends? That's me when there are complications? That is in the birth of this? How do I find behind financially? What about my training? Where can I just ausheulen times and is pleased with the baby in me?
All these questions can be found in a single and pregnant women in order to paralyse the effects burdensome than simply feel overwhelmed. Some women might think very quickly to an abortion, while others stuck their heads in the sand and simply do nothing. Therefore, until the pregnancy is already well advanced, and none of the problems addressed or resolved.
Michaela Thelen, social worker at the Dusseldorf office of the association alone erziehender mothers and fathers "(VAMV) advises pregnant women without a partner especially at the beginning of an advisory body to recover. In an interview with a consultant, For example, VAMV, family or Caritas, the pregnant - without fear or rejection influencing the need for - their feelings and fears to face. An important first step to tackle the situation.
The consultant will help pregnant women and their personal financial situation and realistic in the next step along with her to discuss possible solutions. Of course, this is easy to facts, so that knowledge of the various financial aid to pregnant women by the state and the other party is entitled to (for example, the Federal Foundation of parents and children).
Ensure advice is the first important step to see that women are not alone. As a next step recommended Michaela Thelen, contact with other single mothers or single mothers looking for a piece of the road has already been ido and pregnant women can reveal:! A good opportunity in Dusseldorf, for example, open for breakfast on Sunday VAMV. Contacts can also be visited by birth and preparatory courses for groups only pregnant women (for example, per family) or at times connected to hospitals mothers cafes linked.
And the father?
With the appropriate specialist can also, of course, talk about a problem, only that many pregnant women umtreibt: dealing with the child's father, the expectant mother has left and perhaps pregnancy can disagree. Or when the expectant mother may simply not know. Here is the advice of course, the individual history of pregnant women in mind. Michaela Thelen, but emphasizes the fact that women look to the eye, the child basically a right to his father and his father is entitled to at least. The VAMV Dusseldorf offers on this issue, for example, a group guided, entitled "Addressing manipulation."
* Report, groups and advisory services for pregnant women and single mothers and single parents, VAMV, the Web-www.vamv bundesverband.de. Here are the addresses of state and local associations. VAMV also comes from the brochure "With parents, via the homepage of the Federal Ministry of Family, relate to freedom.
Note: If there is no conflict VAMV pregnancy advice!
* Also part confessional and independent offer advisory services to all pro-family counselling centres. The Federation is accessible on the Web. Here are the addresses of national associations and a very good list of social benefits, rights and assistance for pregnant women, for families and for single-parent families. Located in the pro-family home under the title "topics from A to Z" and "welfare".
* An extensive network of advisory bodies also found women in the Caritas network under www.caritas.de to achieve. Here is the button "I need help" and then "I'm pregnant and seeking Council's also the possibility of an online consultancy.
* Even the welfare of workers in many places offers pregnancy and childbirth conflict advice. Here are mostly well endowed with funds from the German Foundation "mother and child - protecting unborn life", which is of pregnant women in situations of financial emergency may be requested.
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